Can museums be places of healing?
Yesterday was my 42nd birthday, and a month before that it was my second anniversary as the CEO of the…
“I’ve heard that women find themselves in their 40’s; this is a discovery I’m so excited for. I imagine it means finally feeling comfortable in my own skin and living unapologetically. Maybe by this point…
The truth is, I don’t quite know what it means to live for me, not in an arrogant or selfish way, but simply living into my possibilities. For too long I’ve played it small, stayed agreeable, denied and delayed my dreams. For the comfort of others, I minimized my abilities and quieted my capacity. Because I was never taught to take up space. I was never expected to lead.”
– Dorota Blumczyńska
Yes, yes, yes. And Dorota is the speaker you want. A keynote speaker is the glue that ties the whole day together; they’re the person who can motivate, inspire, and entice your audience. No matter the subject of your gathering, Dorota can deliver a message that will leave listeners changed, ready to learn and ready to discover what the next moment will bring.
Dorota’s life has centered on survival. Surviving displacement, migration, poverty, the loss of a parent, becoming an orphan, a ward of the child welfare system, and violence. Many forms of violence; domestic, sexual, emotional, and psychological violence.
But it’s not immediately obvious… her armour is a joyful exterior. In fact, many people know of Dorota but few know her, truly know her. This is because, in part, she hasn’t allowed herself be known. In her own words…
“So often I’ve kept silent to keep others comfortable. I’ve edited and altered my life story because I feared the truth was offensive, disturbing, or somehow embarrassing. My reality, my lived experiences, weren’t welcome.”
It is exhausting to live a double life, to live under a mask, to live unknown. To keep up two versions of oneself takes a toll on a person and brings into question every relationship they form.
Who do you want me to be? Who do I feel safe allowing you to see?
That is until you can’t do it any longer.
Some memories come to me at night, others as I walk to greet the rising sun. It is both a blessing and a curse to remember so much. All I have to do is close my eyes and I am taken elsewhere to another time. My stories come from the living pictures that have taken up home inside me, each filled with sounds, smells, and textures.
To know me means to know my story.
Yesterday was my 42nd birthday, and a month before that it was my second anniversary as the CEO of the…